Wealth building starts with behavior, expert tells Realtors

Building wealth doesn’t start when you find the perfect investment. It starts much earlier, with the everyday choices and habits that determine whether you spend, save or put your money to work.

That was Peter Sheahan’s message during the opening session of Florida Realtors®’ Wealth Building Summit: Your biggest opportunity isn’t simply learning more financial strategies. It’s building the behaviors that make those strategies easier to follow again and again.

“Building wealth or building a wealth mindset is a behavioral problem first, tactical problem second,” he said.

Sheahan, a behavior-change expert who has worked with leaders and organizations including Apple, Chick-fil-A, De Beers and AT&T, organized that behavior around five drivers: consequences, emotion and identity, structures, habits and social context – all of which can make wealth-building choices easier to repeat.

Most people already know the basics, he said. Spend less than you make. Invest some of what’s left. Start early enough to give compounding time to work.

The harder part is doing those things consistently.

“You could have the world’s best real estate strategies, you could have the world’s best tax strategies, you could have the world’s best alternative asset class investment portfolio allocation,” Sheahan said. But without the behaviors that support good decisions and create capital to invest, the strategies alone aren’t enough.

For Realtors®, that can mean deliberately creating the saving and investing systems that traditional employees may get automatically through a workplace retirement plan.

Small decisions add up

Sheahan said wealth is built one choice at a time.

“You don’t, in my experience, build wealth in one big decision at a time, you build it in one small decision at a time,” he said.

Those decisions matter because money that isn’t spent has the chance to be invested and compound over time.

He also encouraged attendees to think about the identity behind their financial choices.

“What would I have to believe about myself in order to make the decisions and engage in the behaviors I need today that will help me build wealth for tomorrow?” he asked.

For Sheahan, that means seeing yourself as someone who builds wealth, and valuing that more than looking successful.

“The confidence of being the kind of person who spends less than they earn and invests the rest … is far more impactful and far more impressive than wearing the status symbols that make it look like you build wealth,” he said.

Make the good choice easier

The good news, Sheahan said, is that wealth building doesn’t have to depend on motivation every day.

A better approach is to build systems that make the right choice easier.

“Take the decision away from you and set up the structures around you to actually support it,” he said.

That could mean automatically moving a set amount or percentage into savings or investments whenever money comes in. The amount doesn’t have to be large at first. What matters is building the habit.

“The sooner you start, the easier it is,” Sheahan said.

Over time, those systems can make wealth building feel much more automatic.

“The combination of the structures and the habits will make it almost like you don’t have to try to build wealth,” he said. “You’ll just be building wealth.”

Who you’re around matters, too

Sheahan also emphasized the influence of the people around you.

“We are who we hang around,” he said.

People tend to absorb the attitudes and habits of those they spend time with, he said. Being around others who save, invest and think long term can help make those behaviors feel normal.

That’s part of what makes a wealth-building community valuable: It reinforces the habits and mindset needed to keep moving forward.

Sheahan closed with a message that tied the whole session together. Build the belief, create the systems, repeat the behaviors and surround yourself with people headed in the same direction.

He also urged attendees to approach wealth from a place of abundance and confidence — believing they’re capable of building it and making choices that reflect that belief.

“You won’t just have a wealth-building mindset,” he said. “You’ll actually be building wealth.”

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